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How To Stop Being Socially Awkward (WORKS INSTANTLY!)
Increase social skills with these 4 easy steps.

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Believe it or not, I used to be very socially awkward in my youth.
I used to have a strong lazy eye and was sure that something was wrong with me. I remember that one moment, when friends of my older brother used to tell me “hey it’s him the brother of so and so” and I tried to say “hey” back and was just like “hye”.
Or when I thought people looked at me and I suddenly started to walk very weirdly.
In the past years this has completely changed. Today I want to give you 4 steps, the first one you can use right ahead, to be less socially awkward. Here it is.

Here’s the plain and easy first step that works instantly. Realize that whenever you feel awkward, the situation itself is not necessarily awkward. We just think that it is.
What we generally fear when we are conscious about our social behavior, is that we get judged by the social group. Not the person watching us, but the person that the person watching us will talk with about.
We’ve evolved this way because we used to be very dependent on our “tribe”, and getting excluded from it would almost be our certain death.
A very easy way to short-circuit this behavior is to simply think, if that person that is watching you would tell what happened to a friend of him, how would this 3rd person react? This has worked instantly for me.
The chances are very high that the other person would simply shrug off after hearing that story from the person that just watched you, because we’re all very focused on ourselves.
Over time we’ll realize that most of the actions that we think are socially awkward, are in reality quite normal and nothing people really fancy to talk about.

After building that initial awareness, the second step – this is more long-term, is to work in a social job for at least 6 months. This will make you superhuman when it comes to dealing with people. Working in a fitness center for now nearly 4 years has definitely helped me with that.

The 3rd step lies in you getting really good at one thing, which will increase your status in the social hierarchy and therefore will increase your confidence. The same thing can be done by putting on muscle, losing weight or getting in shape.
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And the forth step, and the most extreme method to be less socially awkward. And yes, this requires a good baseline that you build from the previous steps, and yes I’ve done it. Is to speak to a random stranger, it has to be of the opposite sex, on the street in broad daylight. It’s not about picking them up, well not necessarily.
I talked to over 100 women like this and it really has been one of the best experiences. It helps you be able to deal with rejection, the most extreme form of “social punishment”, and therefore 10x your confidence.

These are the four steps that help you be less socially awkward. It’s awesome which kind of changes this has brought to my life and I truly think it can change yours.
First: Be aware of the actions you do in other people’s mind and realize that most of them aren’t special. Second: Work in a social job for at least 6 months. Third: Get really good at one thing or get in shape. Check my coaching for that if you’re vegan. Fourth: Speak to strangers of the opposite sex in broad daylight.
Hope you enjoyed this video. See you next time.

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