Fear, it can be a powerful motivator and can be used to get people to change their behavior if used correctly. Make him commit to you: https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/commit/
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In this video and article I’ll show you how to make him worry about losing you, not by playing games, but by focusing on you improving your life.

Your Coach,

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Disclaimer:

Before I get to the good stuff, I do need to warn you of something: if you feel like you have to constantly make a man fear losing you in order to keep him interested, then this guy is probably not for you.
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Put the F.E.A.R. of losing you into him!

Make Him Worry About Losing You Through F.E.A.R

Now I know this headline was a little clickbaity, and I used it to get your attention. So many women think they have to use actual fear to secure love, but I want to show you a healthier way to move a man who isn’t sure of what he wants toward a future with you.

1:15 FOCUS on Your Independent Social Life

How does this make him worry about losing you? If you give everything up to spend all of your time with this guy, he’s going to pull away. It’s just too intense for most people. But if you have a healthy social life outside of him, he might get just the tiniest bit insecure and want to make sure you still want to spend time with him in between social engagements.

2:00 ELIMINATE Your Constant Texting

Don’t text him more than a couple of times a day. And for every text that he sends you, wait a few hours to respond — not because you’re playing games but because you have other things going on in your life and you don’t need to drop everything to respond to him.

The less available you are via text, the more he’ll want you. You might see him start to text you more and more as a result!

2:25 Get More Physically Active in Your Life

Exercise for yourself, not for him…but let him enjoy the results!

Research shows that exercising as little as 10 minutes a day or even just once a week can make people happier. And people who are happier in their lives tend to be more appealing as romantic partners. So find an activity you really enjoy. You’ll benefit in your body, mind…and relationship!

2:50 Reset Your Boundaries

Communicate that you want him to stop disrespecting you.

If he texts you at 2 a.m., don’t respond. Ignore him. If he doesn’t like that? It’s okay. It’s time to move on to find a man who respects you.

If, on the other hand, he texts you the next morning (after you ignored his call) and says he’d love to take you out, that’s acceptable. He’s subconsciously agreed to your boundaries and is ready to follow your rules.

Don’t be afraid to set those boundaries about what is acceptable — and respectful — to you. You set the pace for how this relationship will go, and if he’s not treating you right, he’s not right for you.
Conclusion:

If you want to draw a man back in who maybe has gotten a little distant for whatever reason, use these strategies to make him worry about losing you. Do that by putting less energy into dragging him toward you and focus more on doing what makes you happy and healthy instead. He’ll pursue you, I guarantee.

I’ve said this before to you Sexy Confident ladies over the years, but I’ll say it again:

Never PLAY hard to get. BE hard to get by living your amazing life and making him want to be a part of it.

And remember this: he will worry about losing you if he knows that you’ll walk away if he doesn’t treat you right.

Talk to me, ladies! Have you ever employed these tips to make him worry about losing you? What was the result? Leave a comment below to share!

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