After Bachelorette Rachel Recchia hears that Hayden used some derogatory language to describe she and her co-Bachelorette Gabby Windey, as well as graphically compared Rachel to his ex, Rachel feels that she can't trust him anymore, and she tells him to leave. From 'The Bachelorette' season 19, episode 4, 'Week 4.' Watch 'The Bachelorette' 2022 MONDAYS 8/7c on ABC. Stream on Hulu.