Is he stringing you along? Signs you need to cut him off!

You know I can’t tell you how many times this week a woman has written me saying “my ex broke up with me but he won’t leave me alone. He says he doesn’t want to get back together but he still calls late at night and won’t give me space. Is he lying? Does he really want to be with me? No! He’s just monitoring your activity.

He’s con blocking. He wouldn’t want you to move on before he got bored bagging other women and finally decided to settle for you. I hope you caught that. I said settle. Guys tend to string along their back up plan girls or the women they like having love with but don’t really want to spend time with. Or commit to. If you find yourself in any one of these scenarios you are playing yourself. Cut him off.

For instance... if he texts you a few times a week. Responds to every third text you send him. Comes over to smash once a week and Tells you he loves you while he’s in it but Refuses to stay over even though he has no where to be in the morning and Is unreachable for two days after, your being strung along.

If a guy always hits you up randomly on late nights but when you try to contact him it’s as if access is limited. Almost like he’s got you on an appointment only schedule. Just know your being strung along.


Guys know that infatuated women can easily confuse attraction for other emotions.
If a guy avoids meaningful discussion and is always pretty elusive emotionally, but slips the word sexy in every conversation or talks about how fine you are a lot ,...he just wants the drawers. Y’all have to start paying more attention to the content of a mans conversation. Not the style and tone or swagger. Y’all

If a guy always says he’s busy or he’s got plans with this person or that friend but you can’t seem to get on the schedule move the F on! Guys make time for what’s important. You’re just not that important. Stop playing yourself. Stop making yourself available. You’re being strung along.