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Mastering Self-Respect is The Key to Effective Fatherhood
In this enlightening video, we explore the essential role self-respect plays in mastering oneself and becoming an effective father. If you're struggling with compulsions or actions that undermine your responsibilities, it may be a sign that your brain chemistry is off balance and that you haven't truly mastered yourself. Discover a simple yet powerful technique to assess your self-respect. By looking yourself in the eye and asking, "Do I respect myself?" you can gain deep insights into your principles, honor code, and long-term goals. This self-reflection is crucial for understanding where you stand and identifying areas for improvement. Our discussion emphasizes that respect is foundational to fatherhood. Without self-respect, you cannot respect your children, your partner, or anyone else, which can lead to destructive behaviors. We delve into the importance of leading by example and how true leaders pull from the front rather than pushing with fear. Learn about the dangers of losing self-respect and becoming a tyrannical figure in your own home. Hear real-life stories of fathers who faced these challenges and the steps they took to regain their self-respect and restore their relationships with their children. Don't miss my new "How to Love an Avoidant Man Video" Course: https://adamlanesmith.com/how-to-love-an-avoidant-man/ A step-by-step guide to building a fulfilling, intimate connection with an avoidant partner. Perfect for both partners and avoidant men looking to understand their needs better. If you're a father or aspire to be one, this video offers valuable insights and practical advice on maintaining self-respect, managing stress, and being a role model for your children. Watch the full episode for a deeper dive into these important topics: https://youtu.be/Z6cFhJ5sV3E Join The Mentorship Program: https://adamlanesmith.com/the-attachment-circle/ If you enjoyed this video and want more content like this, do me a favor: be sure to hit that like button, leave a comment, and don't forget to subscribe to the channel! Share it with your friends, and hit that notification bell so you never miss an update. ๐๏ธ Let's grow this amazing community together! ๐ Work with Adam Lane Smith, The Attachment Specialist: https://adamlanesmith.com/ https://adamlanesmith.com/courses/ https://adamlanesmith.com/single-session/ The 4 Attachment Styles Guide - Free! ๐ฅ https://adamlanesmith.com/the4attachments/ If youโve struggled in dating or marriage and worry youโre not good enough, worry no more. The Attachment Specialist Adam Lane Smith wrote this guide to show you how to stop fearing abandonment and start building healthy relationships. Through his proven step-by-step method for repairing attachment, Adam will teach you what people really want from you, how to give and receive love without fear, what red ๏ฌags to avoid, and how you can build a lifetime love with a partner you trust. Slaying Your Fear - A Book For People Who Grapple With Insecurity https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07S33YGJZ Connect with Adam on your second preferred platform: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro X: https://twitter.com/adamlanesmith Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AdamLaneSmith/ Chapters: 00:00:00 - Mastering Self 00:00:45 - Assessing personal principles and goals 00:01:16 - The Importance of Self-Respect in Fatherhood 00:01:57 - Leading by Example 00:02:36 - The Dangerous Slide into Tyranny 00:03:18 - The Challenges of Being a Father 00:03:51 - Building Trust in a Parent-Child Relationship 00:04:30 - Taking a Break for Reflection 00:05:12 - Managing Stress and Apologizing to My Son 00:05:52 - Dad Will Take Ownership |